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This Father's Day, I'm celebrating the ones who show up — and I bet you have a few worth honoring too.

In this special Father’s Day edition, meet guest author Nate, who is an Autism dad.

There's a moment that lives in my memory — my husband, phone tucked between his ear and shoulder, calling my sister in what I can only describe as a hair emergency.

He'd used a little too much conditioner on our daughter's hair. Maybe a lot too much. 😂

And I was hundreds of miles away, laughing so hard I almost cried.

That story still makes me smile — because it holds everything I want to talk about today. Not perfection. Not a greeting card version of fatherhood. Just a man who showed up, figured it out, and called for backup when he needed it.

This one's for the men who are there for their kids any time, anywhere. 💛

The first time I ever left my husband alone with our kids, they were young. We had been loading up our RV rental, getting ready for his family reunion, when the call came. My mom needed me in Mexico. Now.

I left knowing that a dozens of family members — and several moms — would swoop in to help if he needed it.

The second time I left, he didn't even blink at feedings or bedtimes. His real concern? Our daughter's hair. That's when the famous phone call to my sister happened — and the conditioner incident became family legend. Meanwhile, the kids were happily eating his legendary chili-mac and the delicious oatmeal chocolate chip cookies he makes. The man had priorities. And honestly? He did awesome!. 🍪

Throughout the years, my husband has devoted his life to our kids. Even now, with our children grown, he cares for them in a way that warms my heart — especially through his quiet, faithful prayers on their behalf. He didn't just father them. He fathered them — with presence, with consistency, with love that never clocked out. He is not perfect, but he is perfect for our kids.

I'll be honest with you — Father's Day wasn't always easy for me. My own biological father walked out of my life during my late teens, and for a long time, this day carried weight I didn't know how to put down.

But here's what I've learned: life has a way of surrounding you with the men you need — the ones that will be by your side when needed.

My loving stepdad became a pillar in our lives. Steady. Present. And over the years, other remarkable men stepped in — not to replace anyone, but to fill my life with the kind of love and mentorship that made me who I am today.

So this Father's Day, I'm not looking back at what I lost.

I'm looking around at what I have. ✨

And I want to invite you to do the same.

A journey through the men who shaped my world — and an invitation to explore yours

As I sat down to write this edition, I decided to do something different for this section. instead, I started listing the men who have shaped my life, my family, and my businesses — and I realized something beautiful.

They are everywhere. Family, Friends, Mentors, Coaches, Neighbors, Leaders…

🤝 The mentor who became family. One of my business partners has become "Uncle John" to our family. His wisdom, his love for learning, and his steady example inspire me to become better — not just in business, but in life. He's the one I call when I have questions that need more than Google. Our friendship goes far beyond business, and his presence in our lives is a gift I don't take for granted.

💪 The uncle who taught me resilience. My uncle, who I knew as Chino growing up, showed me that it doesn't matter what you do for a living — it's who you are on the inside that counts. His hard work, his devotion to his wife, and his ability to truly enjoy the moment are things I see in his life. He lives with no regrets. He's been a steady hand in my real estate journey. A quiet voice, a calm presence.

🙏 The men who lead with love. I admire men in my church community who are incredibly successful at work, deeply devoted as husbands and fathers, and who serve with Christlike love — without being paid a single penny. They counsel. They care for other families. They lead by example. Their lives are a sermon no one has to hear preached — because you can see it.

🦸 The fathers doing double duty. I especially want to honor the dads who are doing it all alone — the ones who lost their companions and stepped into every role without hesitation. Learning to braid little girls' hair. Figuring out grocery shopping and school lunches. Keeping track of doctor appointments and making sure Santa, the Tooth Fairy, and the Easter Bunny all know exactly where to stop. These fathers show up to every "first" with superhuman love — and their children are blessed by them every step of the way.

❤️ The fathers who choose to stay. I honor the dads who stay and love their families — especially when disability makes things harder on the marriage, on the kids, on them. Choosing your family every single day, even on the hard days, is one of the most courageous things a person can do.

So here's my challenge for you this Father's Day — look around.

Who are the men holding things together in your world? The ones who stayed. The ones who stepped in. The ones you can call when you need help — even if it's a conditioner emergency. 😂

Name them. Thank them. Even share this with them so they know your are thinking about them.

If you are reading this right now, your are ONE of the AWESOME MEN Out there!

Happy Father's Day to every dad, stepdad, uncle, mentor, and father figure reading this. You are seen. You are honored. You matter more than you know. 🙌

Anybody can be a father. But only the special ones become a dad.

Feel free to share this with a dad who needs to read it today. 💛

Today’s guest author Nate Wagner— an autism dad, a member of our community, and someone I deeply respect. His words speak for themselves. 💛

Father's Day always makes me pause.
I think about the kind of dad I am.
The kind of dad I want to be.
And the kind of dad my daughters actually need me to be.

And if I am honest, being an autism dad has shown me something I probably needed to see.
What works for one child does not always work for the other.
What worked yesterday does not always work today.
And the more I try to control everything, the less control I actually have.

That is hard for me to admit.
Because control can feel responsible.
It can feel like leadership.
It can feel like I am just trying to help.

But a lot of times, my control shows up as urgency.
I want things to move faster.
I want to get places early, because on time feels late.
I want things to go the way they went last time.
And when they do not, I can feel myself getting frustrated.

I start thinking:
"If she did this once, why can't she just do it again?"
"If we got through this yesterday, why is it so hard today?"

Then the dad questions start.
Am I making things too easy?
Am I letting something go that I should be correcting?
Am I doing enough?
Am I doing this right?

Those questions are difficult.
And they do not always come from wisdom.
Sometimes they come from fear.
Fear that I am missing something.
Fear that I am not leading well.
Fear that I am not being the dad I need to be.

Our family life does not look like every other family's life.
We do not really travel much.
We have never flown together as a family.
Bedtime can still be a huge challenge.
And yes, it is getting better.
But getting better does not mean easy.

That has been a big lesson for me.
Progress does not always happen in a straight line.
Sometimes progress is slower than I want.
And that is hard for me.

Because I can see where I want us to be.
I can see the thing I wish was easier.
Sleeping through the night in their own bedroom.
Getting out the door.
Making it somewhere on time.
Doing something today that worked yesterday.

Those things can sound small from the outside.
But inside our home, they are not small.
They are real progress.
And I am learning that if I only measure our family by where I wish we were, I miss what is actually getting better.

Sometimes progress looks like trying again.
Sometimes it looks like lowering my voice.
Sometimes it looks like letting go of what I thought the night should be.
Sometimes it looks like admitting I need help.
Sometimes it is me apologizing.

One thing that has really helped us is occupational therapy.
It has changed the game for us.
Not because it fixed everything.
But because it helped us feel less alone.
It gave us real skills.
It gave me ideas outside the box.
It helped me see that I am doing my best, even when this is hard.

And maybe that is what I keep coming back to.
I do not need to control more.
I need to understand more.
I need support.
I need tools.
I need to stay open.
I need to appreciate the progress, even when it is slower than I want.
I need to remember that leadership at home is not always about getting everything to go my way.

Sometimes it is staying calm.
Sometimes it is asking for forgiveness when I make a mistake.
Sometimes it is realizing that my family does not need me to have it all figured out.
They need me to keep coming back.

So if you are an autism dad who feels tired, unsure, or quietly overwhelmed, I just want you to know:
You are not alone.
You are not the only one asking hard questions.
You are not the only one wondering if you are doing this right.

We are in this together.
Progress, not perfection.
One foot in front of the other.

— Nate

The men in your life showed up for the hard stuff — the sleepless nights, the meltdowns in parking lots, the quiet prayers when no one was watching. They deserve to show up for the beautiful stuff too.

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Let's plan something beautiful. Book a free discovery call with me at Gathering Memories Travel — because your family has earned this. ✈️

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